The last trip we took together was back to Auschwitz.
Little did I know that the pandemic would hit just a few months later, and that I would lose my grandfather this past summer.
What I did know was that this day would eventually come, a day commemorating the Holocaust – without my Saba, without his presence, only recordings of his voice, only his words to quote. In 2020, we went back to Poland one last time to bear witness, to speak of the unspeakable, to sing in spite of those who tried to silence.
And he did sing. David Wisnia sang in full voice at the gates of Hell, pictured here, where the Nazis transported thousands upon thousands to be tortured and die, simply because they were different, simply because people were told that by separating them, hurting them, killing them – all their problems would be solved.
But we know better. Our problems are never solved by hurting others.
On this Yom HaShoah Day of Remembrance, I promise to Never Forget, to continue to tell my grandfather’s story of surviving the Holocaust. I will continue to keep my grandfather’s voice alive. My grandfather said to do good in this world. To make yourself a blessing.
As it is written in Hebrew: “V’Heyeh Brachah”
As human beings we are capable of inflicting great pain upon each, and we are capable of doing incredible good. Kindness. Compassion. Seeking justice. Standing up for what is right. What we ourselves choose to do impacts others, for we are all responsible for one another.
Remember the words of my grandfather. Choose to be a blessing.
I created a new section of my website to record the stories of our travels and performances together, with videos and other music to share. Read and follow our journey back to Poland here: www.mypolishwisnia.com
Join me for two streaming event this week to help commemorate Holocaust Remembrance Day and honor my grandfather’s story of survival.
Tuesday April 26, Living Links Presentation Mercer County Community College NJ (register)
Wednesday April 27, My Polish Wisnia Presentation & Service Sinai Temple, Springfield MA (register)
We are used to seeing visions of the Holocaust in black and white. But that is not what Auschwitz looks like when you are here. Because life happens in color: the past and the present, the good and the bad, the joyful and the boring and the horrible. all of it.
You could be fooled into thinking this place is beautiful as the sun sets. but that’s just another disturbing thing about Auschwitz. You look at the sky and the trees and the grass, and you realize: this is just a place. This a place, just like any other place is a place. Yes, these things happened here. But it could be anywhere. This could happen anywhere.
When we returned to the Auschwitz Museum, they had a surprise for our family… documents relating to my grandfather’s time as a prisoner of Auschwitz, documents with his name, and his number 83526 (which ultimately replaced his name as inmate of the concentration camp).
As the Nazis realized they were losing the war, they quickly burned as many of the documents as they could. Amazingly, some documents survived. The people that house the archives estimate that they have somewhere between 3-5% of what originally existed. Here is one of those documents.
This is a record of the day (March 19, 1943) my grandfather David Wisnia was late to prisoner roll call. His transgression was noted on this list, his punishment was that he was led to the gallows. A noose was put around his neck. Then, the platform was kicked out from under him.
Instead of his neck breaking, the rope slackened and he fell to the ground below with it. The guards laughed, he remembers. The SS guards were teaching him a lesson, but also amusing themselves. It was a joke.
The Nazis were so meticulous in their running of Auschwitz that they kept records of everything. Prisoners. Punishments. Transports. Death certificates. This twisted accounting of everything they did – each horror & inhumanity endured – provides proof of that reality for us today.
This is the most well documented genocide ever committed.
We often repeat the phrase “Never Forget” when speaking of the Holocaust. But to never forget, we have to first – each and every one of us – acknowledge the reality of what happened here. We have to teach it and tell these stories. It is on us to carry this burden forward.
My grandfather took us to the building in Auschwitz where he did much of his forced labor as a prisoner, disinfecting clothing for inmates and new arrivals. It was known as the Sauna, because they would steam the clothes. It is sometimes open to museum tours. Today, my grandfather was our tour guide.
My grandfather met Ralph during the Holocaust. Both selected to work in the “Sauna” in Auschwitz, disinfecting the clothes of prisoners and new arrivals. They barely knew each other & rarely spoke, too fatigued from hard labor, too frightened of the Nazi guards, too full of sadness and despair. Now 75 years later, reunited in Poland, they get to have a beautiful meal and just talk.
A momento for the survivors to commemorate 75 years since the Holocaust.
Music is the through-line of my grandfather’s life. Music made him famous as a child singing in Warsaw. Music saved his life as a prisoner in the Nazi concentration camps. Music helped him establish roots and community in the United States. Music is the story, the pain and joy wrapped in tradition and memory, that he has passed along to me.
Come hear his story in music, with a concert event that we will perform together, including a song he composed while a prisoner in Auschwitz that I translated into English.
Thursday Sept 19 at Wissahickon Valley Public Library free, and open to the public seating is limited, reservations recommended to attend program details and RSVP at www.aviwisnia.com/tour
In honor of April’s Holocaust Remembrance Day, my grandfather, Cantor David S. Wisnia, and I will recount our recent travels in Poland, with stories from Warsaw and Auschwitz, and music that we will perform together in two very special events that are free and open to the public. There was much interest in hearing more of my grandfather’s remarkable story and more about our trip, so – for all of you in the Philadelphia/Princeton & NYC area – i am excited to be able to present these events.
MON, April 13: Congregation Beth Chaim – Princeton Jct, NJ WED, April 15: Temple Shaaray Tefila – New York, NY
I have recorded all my posts from the trip on my blogso you can still go back and read them, starting with the first entry HERE, plus a#MyPolishWisnia Photo Albumof the journey on Facebook.
You can also read a NJJN article about our return home HERE.